"It’s not just potentially harmful fans to worry about. Talking about having a spouse also opens me up to state violence. Law enforcement often tries to arrest and prosecute family members of sex workers, calling them pimps and panderers, and politicians have tried to push bills to make the definition of pandering even more broad. A pandering charge can be applied if a partner drives me to work one day, or even just by the fact that I share material wealth in my marriage. Our life could be torn apart by pandering laws despite the fact my partner also does sex work and is just another struggling queer and disabled person like me. People like us are still arrested and charged regularly."
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/mbkv7a/coming-out-as-a-sex-worker-liara-roux-personal-essay
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/mbkv7a/coming-out-as-a-sex-worker-liara-roux-personal-essay