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title: "Joshua Zader I would say that men often know if someone is a "No"..."
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# Joshua Zader I would say that men often know if someone is a "No"...

*October 19, 2022 — Comment Archer T. Ships replied to Joshua Zader's comment.*

Joshua Zader I would say that men often know if someone is a "No" fairly quickly.  It can take longer to know if someone is a "Yes".  For example, dinner dates can only give so much information.  Long road trips, Burning Man, foreign travel in primitive conditions,  collaboration on a challenging project, etc also give vital information.  That kind of dating can take a while.