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# No.  However, what does happen sometimes with people you love for a...

*July 16, 2023 — Comment Kirk Bodamer's photo*

No.  However, what does happen sometimes with people you love for a long time is that you see "beyond" their outer appearance.  You simultaneously recognize their increasing physical decline, but you perceive them as they were when they were young and beautiful.