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# Emily de Cleyre If it were the case that men and women did the...

*September 17, 2023 — Comment Archer T. Ships replied to his own comment.*

Emily de Cleyre If it were the case that men and women did the inviting to first dates in roughly equal measure, that might be a good practice. However, men almost always do the inviting.   So, they almost always get stuck with the bill.  Which leads to resentment.