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# Based on what you've said, it sounds like she often wasn't very...

*February 1, 2024 — Comment Ben Feral Selinger's post*

Based on what you've said, it sounds like she often wasn't very communicative or kind to you.  In my experience, that sort of thing is a hardwired character trait that is very difficult to change.  While I'm sure it hurts, it was probably for the best that she left without causing you more damage.