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# Ben Feral Selinger Obviously, she must have had many good traits, or...

*February 1, 2024 — Comment Archer T. Ships replied to his own comment.*

Ben Feral Selinger Obviously, she must have had many good traits, or else you wouldn't have been attracted to her.  And I can't possibly know the history of your interactions together.  And we don't know her side of the story, which would likely help put her actions in a more sympathetic light.   I can only offer how I would think, were I in your shoes. However, isn't keeping you awake shortly before the "most important product launch of my career" a potential source of great harm?  Delaying her laundry to a less critical time seems like a small ask. Making a mess (mud, dog piss) for you to clean up also seems quite discourteous, and a potential source of harm.  (i wouldn't want to slip and fall in a remote area.) In any case, I'm sorry for any emotional pain you're experiencing, and I hope that you can find someone who consistently treats you well.