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# >  I mean, do smart, high achieving dudes think it's a turn off when...

*September 28, 2024 — Comment Archer T. Ships replied to Elise Hecht's comment.*

>  I mean, do smart, high achieving dudes think it's a turn off when women advertise they want to be SAHMs? No, because men are driven more by looks / personality than by status.  Most men don't care if you're a poor scullery maid or a wealthy highborn noblewomen, as long as you're attractive, kind, and loyal.  Status / wealth matters much more to women.