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# Lisa LaCroix No, I don't think being open to sex early in the...

*August 2, 2025 — Comment Archer T. Ships replied to Lisa LaCroix's comment.*

Lisa LaCroix No, I don't think being open to sex early in the relationship disqualifies a woman for most men.  Indeed, I think early sexual attraction is a good sign. But I do think it opens many women up to emotional pain.  Just as most women don't want to have sex with most men they meet, most men don't want to marry most women they meet.  But most men would have sex with a high percentage of women, including many women they would never marry.  Delaying sex helps ensure that the man is into you for more than sex. It's important to make it clear to the guy that you _are_ interested in them though, by doing other things that indicate interest, such as asking them out in return, cooking meals for them, etc.