When the filmmakers want to show that their protagonist feels lust upon meeting their love interest, they will film the love interest in slow motion and give him/her sparkly eyes. A friend asks: "i hate that movie trick. is that how the male brain works?"
I can't speak for all hetero male brains, but I think most men scan every women they meet (smell, waist/hip ratio, hair, face, boobs, butt, legs, style, "gestalt", etc) to determine whether they'd "hit dat". For most guys, the "hit dat" threshold is pretty low; but the higher you are on the "hit dat" scale, the more effort they'll put into courting you. Most guys know whether they'd "hit dat" in a minute or two.
As he gets to know you, other criteria determine whether a guy will:
"Date dat"
"Introduce dat to friends"
"Introduce dat to family"
"Date dat exclusively"
"Move in with dat"
"Get a dog with dat"
"Have kids with dat"
"Marry dat"
From what've read, what guys find physically attractive is quite closely correlated, even cross culturally. (Basically, men spring boners for markers of youth, fertility, and good health.)
Time slowing / twinkly eyes is just a fllmmaker's attempt to visually represent men's inner emotions. I've never experienced either literally. But I have definitely met women for whom I've felt immediate lust and longing.
I can't speak for all hetero male brains, but I think most men scan every women they meet (smell, waist/hip ratio, hair, face, boobs, butt, legs, style, "gestalt", etc) to determine whether they'd "hit dat". For most guys, the "hit dat" threshold is pretty low; but the higher you are on the "hit dat" scale, the more effort they'll put into courting you. Most guys know whether they'd "hit dat" in a minute or two.
As he gets to know you, other criteria determine whether a guy will:
"Date dat"
"Introduce dat to friends"
"Introduce dat to family"
"Date dat exclusively"
"Move in with dat"
"Get a dog with dat"
"Have kids with dat"
"Marry dat"
From what've read, what guys find physically attractive is quite closely correlated, even cross culturally. (Basically, men spring boners for markers of youth, fertility, and good health.)
Time slowing / twinkly eyes is just a fllmmaker's attempt to visually represent men's inner emotions. I've never experienced either literally. But I have definitely met women for whom I've felt immediate lust and longing.