Based on what you've said, it sounds like she often wasn't very...
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Based on what you've said, it sounds like she often wasn't very communicative or kind to you. In my experience, that sort of thing is a hardwired character trait that is very difficult to change. While I'm sure it hurts, it was probably for the best that she left without causing you more damage.